
Today as I walked down the hall of my church carrying my sick baby I got a sign from God. I know what you’re thinking…here’s some Jesus freak that is trying to make sense of a crazy world. Well yes and no. Did I see a burning bush? Nope. Did I hear angels singing? Not really – even though I did love the worship music this morning as I was getting settled into my pew! The sign was much more simplistic folks.
My daughter, Ruby, has had a rough time lately trying to fight off an upper-respiratory infection even with multiple rounds of antibiotics that just don’t seem to be working on her little four month-old body. Today among the typical “Good Morning” greetings a friend asked, “How’s Miss Ruby doing this morning?” About that time a sweet gentleman walked up and heard my reply, “Not so good…y’all pray for her please.” What happened next has been on my mind ever since.
There in the middle of the crowded hallway he stopped and asked if we could pray right then for her little body to get well. For a moment it caught me off guard. I thought, “Here…right this second, with a buzz of folks around us and blocking traffic?” Five of us bowed our heads and he said a simple, but beautiful prayer for my precious little girl and I immediately felt more calm and encouraged.
As 2017 comes to a close and we look forward to what 2018 may bring, I’ve been reflecting heavily lately on the changes I’d like to see in my life. I’d love to have a more organized home and more balance in my life. I’ve got big plans to finally drop ALL my baby weight accumulated through now two kiddos! But the most important resolution I have for 2018 is to get back to the basics…the basics of praying as Jesus taught us with sincerity and never ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:16).
How many times have you seen on social media someone asking for prayer? If you live in the Bible Belt like I do it’s seen daily I’m sure. How do you respond? Are you like me and leave comments like “praying for you”, or “you’re in my thoughts and prayers.”? I was discussing this with a friend the other day, and we concluded that it has basically become one of those auto responses we say so quickly without really stopping to fully think about our answer, nor actually delivering the prayer.
Maybe its just that our good intentions are quickly railroaded by the next post of a funny meme or new album uploaded by a friend.
Is it just me, and I am the only one that needs a huge kick in the rear end for not dedicating the time and attention to doing one of the most important aspects of being a follower of Christ? If that is the case, everyone reading this is my accountability partner in 2018.
If I am to model my life after Him, I can take a few lessons from the pages of the Bible and see that Jesus gives plenty of examples showing the importance of a dedicated and intentional prayer time. In Luke chapters five and six we see that Jesus would withdraw away often to privately pray in nature. In Matthew chapter four, we read He spent 40 days isolated in the wilderness being tested by Satan. No doubt as he fasted he prayed for a focused mind and strength. Maybe it’s not a coincidence then that psychologists say research suggests it takes 40 days to form a habit?
Maybe we can start a revolution than instead of a resolution? Maybe we can change the world to be a better place through the simple but important act of praying. A place where there is more joy and less sadness and anger. I’m not in a political position where I can change laws and I don’t own a huge company that can donate millions to charities, but I CAN take the lesson from Jesus asking his closest friends to join him in prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane (Matthew: 26:36), and lean on the fact that the Bible tells us God hears every prayer. The thing is – we’ve got to first SAY it.
Looking back, for the first few years of my marriage my husband and I didn’t pray out loud together much at all. When we made the decision to make that a priority in our lives it was awkward at first. I’m embarrassed to say I was even a little uncomfortable to pray in public at restaurants. Even when praying in the private of our home, I felt vulnerable to voice my thoughts out loud for my husband to even hear. But, just like with a lot of other things in life the more you do something the easier it tends to become. Now everything feels “off” if we don’t first say grace around the table. Bedtime prayers have evolved as a time to reflect on the day, give thanks, and put into perspective the next day. I’m also amazed and humbled at the sweetest prayers children can whisper!
As a side note there are no magical words and sometimes I don’t know what to pray. In those times I’ve found comfort in saying just that. “God, I’m not sure what to pray for right now but I do know that you are in control and you are the ultimate healer and you know what is best for us. Please send just that and help me to have clarity and comfort in all things. May my every thought, word, and action be pleasing to you. Amen.”
So…I invite you to search your heart and join me in finding a way to become more intentional and dedicated to prayer in 2018. Maybe that means:
- You focus on talking to God while taking a shower or driving to work
- Start a habit of intentionally praying for first responders and the victims when you hear emergency sirens
- Attend more actual church services to pray together corporately with other believers
- Talk to Him while doing outside chores like mowing the lawn
- Make it a goal to memorize the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6: 9-13) as a family
- Send random prayer texts to people in your life that you know need to read them as encouragement
- You start a prayer journal
- Pause to whisper a prayer for wisdom and peace when dealing with a tough situation before speaking
- When someone requests prayer, stop right then and send that prayer up on their behalf!
I needed that reminder this morning as we prayed in the hallway that God is great all the time and there is no better time than NOW to talk to him. Praying is our way of communicating with God and just like in marriage, good communication is key! I know I’ve got room for improvement in 2018 and I’m just one person – but God is mighty and he can do great things!
“Lord I pray you open my eyes to opportunities to share the Gospel with others. And when those opportunities are presented, Lord please give me the courage and boldness to speak. Amen.”








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experience eating curds while visiting Wisconsin 15 years ago I’ve never seen them in a grocery store in my part of the US until recently. I like the spicy flavor just as much as I appreciate that they are produced by a cooperative that helps more profit to go right back to the dairy farmers whose cows produced the initial milk. Might make a fun conversation piece on the appetizers buffet for a holiday party?
which over a dozen other combinations of sweet ingredients can be packed on the outside as a crust. You can purchase them whole to be shipped or if picking up locally (Fayetteville, NC) New Deli will slice them to be ready to display at your upcoming holiday event for easy serving. Pumpkin Pie and Turtle are my picks!
summer asked me to host a home party to introduce the products in their catalog to my friends. Of all the products I got to try out, the Renewing Body Gelee was my favorite. It’s described as the “Swiss Army Knife” of the product line due to its versatility. I’m almost finished with my second jar and have seen it help with sunburn, insect bites, sore muscles, and even gave some relief when I got tangled up in insulation and my skin was miserably irritated. The products are made from all natural ingredients with no artificial fragrances or fillers.
higher than I want to pay for “work” clothes. After he purchased this vest for me as a Christmas gift last year I am now fully on board. It’s perfect for those that need a warm layer but don’t want bulk. It’s ideal for those who still want to be stylish yet value functionality. The three different sets of pockets are perfectly located and just the right size. TIP: Sign up for their email list and they regularly put items on sale along with coupon codes. Just wait for it to cycle through!
in lieu of my daughter making the dreaded plead for an electronic device. They are great to gift for the child you’re not sure what to give because they are consumable and appeal to a wide range of ages. They also provide a really creative way to connect with kiddos and discuss that God loves us no matter what we look like!
























attention. It was a little slice of Heaven on Earth. I got to see the world through her eyes which is far more beautiful than my own. We stopped along the way to see some red clover flowers our Farmer had planted as a cover crop to feed deer a few years back. Laying up against a nearby tree we discovered a half buried old Pepsi-Cola bottle. This was the hidden treasure she was anticipating and we consumed several minutes removing this artifact from the soil to carry with us. Children are so inquisitive. She questioned out loud how it got there and who drank from it. Good Question! Maybe her great-grandfather as he butchered a hog to feed the family? Maybe an old helper on the farm parched from stacking bales of hay in the Summer heat? I LOVE all things “old” with a history and a little mystery so upon research have since found out its from the 












Not Enough Rain: This is the easiest to explain. There must be ideal moisture in the soil for seeds to germinate. For some crop applications rain is necessary to wash in fertilizer good into the soil to make it more readily available to the plant. If the plant is parched during the heat of the Summer it will not have enough moisture for seed progression and the final crop will be less volume.


green growth. In the meanwhile it has been cared for and nurtured by the farmer with details to the plants needed nutrition and protecting from plant diseases and life-sucking insects. The only part of this entire plant that the farmer get paid for is the seed head when it is has finished developing, dried out, and removed (harvested) from the plant. Only then will we get to sell it to a grainery that will in turn act as a broker to sell it to a variety of different companies that need wheat as an ingredient in their products. You may have ate cereal this morning that originated in our fields! Here is where the problem lies. That seed head is super sensitive and will respond similar to if you stayed outside all night without a coat on. It has nothing
to protect it from the cold, and the freeze will kill the developing seed head and stop any further development. The leaves can be damaged to the point they shut down photosynthesis. Tomorrow morning we could wake up to limp and lifeless stalks that will take on the look in this photo of frost damage on our canola crop last year. Many of them will never bounce back and will permanently be damaged. That damage is a huge sucker punch to the farmer’s bank accounts come harvest time in May and June. Six months of hard manual labor plus hours upon hours of studying the markets and making contacts to get the best price and fixing broken equipment used to care for the crop…all with nothing to show for it but a few more calluses on the rough hands.

where fellowship among similar individuals kept me accountable. I became more aware of my need to spend time studying the Bible to grow closer to Him. There was one particular Crusade night held in the historic Reynolds Coliseum that again is one of those “moments” for me. It was right before Easter and our speaker was using the movie The Green Mile as a comparison to Jesus’ life. It was phenomenal discussion and I will never forget hearing for the first time the song
cycle our pastor encouraged me to read Steven Furtick’s book Sun Stand Still. Though nothing can compare with the scripture straight from the Bible, in those moments God used this book to help me understand the power and might that He holds and that He is still in the business of miracles. Now, when I look at my daughter I am humbled daily that God entrusted us to be her parents, and it empowers me to work even harder to show him praise and honor for that privilege.